What really bugs you?

What really bugs me is when I need to tell my friends that I need to talk to another friend and they don't trust me so they think that they have to follow me and that friend. It just makes me feel like they don't trust me as a good friend. But, let's face it, we all know how it feels like to have that happen. It does'nt feel good to have a friend just like that every day. That would just be a bad life for you and that friend.